Balancing work and family
Everyone wants a healthy balance with work and personal life. Making small changes can make a big difference. Make small changes to your morning routine to improve the morning rush. Use a schedule. Meal prep. Other ideas may take more work, like setting boundaries with family members, or setting up a schedule of household chores. It may not be simple, but changes for more balance are worth it. Learn more here.
Childcare
One of the most important concerns of a parent is the care your child will receive while you are at work. Kentucky State Government employees needing to learn more about safe and healthy childcare options can find that information by clicking here.
Coping with Disaster & Trauma
Kentuckians have experienced numerous natural disasters over the past few years, including floods, tornados and wildfires. There are both physical and mental health impacts from these and other traumatic events life can bring. To find more helpful information about the steps employees can take to reduce negative effects of exposure to disaster or trauma click here.
Eldercare
Many state employees are also children of aging parents. This can bring up a host of issues, including financial, legal, and relationship concerns. KEAP has prepared a comprehensive eldercare guide. Learn more about this resource here.
Family Issues
Family life is important to work life. Persistent family issues can affect wellbeing and may lead to emotional stress and anxiety. Get more resources for family concerns here.
Finances
Stress in any form can be challenging, and financial stress can feel especially heavy. Taking steps to better manage your finances can support your overall well-being, and thoughtful planning can help create a more secure and positive financial future. The State Employee Money Management information covers a broad range of financial topics for Commonwealth employees. And if it has been a while since you've checked in with your budget, a basic budget worksheet is available here.
Gambling
In recent years, gambling has become far more accessible. Here are a few of the warning signs of a gambling problem: thinking about gambling all the time, going back to try and win back your money and feeling irritable when trying to stop or cut back. If you have concerns gambling has become a problem, take a self-assessment and learn about helpful resources here.
Health-related issues
Get important information to help you and your family stay healthy. Learn more here.
Intimate Partner Violence
Everyone has the right to be safe in their relationships.
Sometimes the nature of abuse makes it confusing to identify unhealthy relationship behaviors. You can learn more about the different characteristics of healthy, unhealthy and abusive relationships at loveisrespect.org. Domestic or Intimate Partner Violence is a pattern of abusive behavior that occurs between family members and/or intimate partners to gain power and control. It can take the form of physical, sexual, psychological, or economic abuse. Domestic violence impacts people from all backgrounds. And it doesn’t stay at home. Like other workplace health and safety issues, domestic violence affects productivity, time/attendance, and health- care costs. If you are a state employee who is experiencing interpersonal violence, you are not alone. The Kentucky Employee Assistance Program staff are available to talk confidentially with any employee experiencing domestic violence. They can connect you with local resources and guide you in safety planning. Here is a planning checklist you may find helpful. In addition, ZeroV, formerly The Kentucky Coalition Against Domestic Violence, offers information, support and resources statewide. Learn more at ZeroV. If you are a supervisor who suspects an employee is experiencing domestic violence, KEAP can consult with you on best ways to work with the employee and conduct workplace safety planning. Supervisors and Coworkers can read this toolkit for information on how to respond to an employee or co-worker in an abusive relationship. It is vital that domestic abuse be seen as a serious and preventable problem and that those in need receive the support and resources that are necessary.
Kentucky Resource Locators
Are you looking for assistance for your family? The Kynect resource platform helps Kentuckians locate a wide range of programs and services. Learn more here.
Legal Services
Kentucky Judicial Branch
Kentucky Court of Justice and the Kentucky Access to Justice Commission have a portal designed to help people who are handling their own legal matters. Explore the portal’s resources. The portal also provides links to legal information categorized by topic on kyjustice.org, the online legal advice clinic ky.freelegalanswers.org/, lawyer referral services and Kentucky's regional civil legal aid programs. These legal aid programs provide free legal assistance to eligible individuals in civil legal matters. The Administrative Office of the Courts legal forms library is also available through the portal. Here, users will find an array of standardized legal forms.
Kentucky Bar Association
Find a Lawyer
Local Community Assistance Programs
Find local community resources throughout the Commonwealth that assist with essential services by clicking here.
Parenting
Parents want to raise their children in a healthy, happy home. However, difficulties on many fronts can increase stress and cause unhappiness. The following websites provide tips for dealing with situations faced by many parents, including adjusting to a new baby, separation and divorce, co-parenting, blended families, grandparenting , childhood obesity, depression in teens, health and education issues.
https://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/parenting.html
https://www.helpguide.org/home-pages/parenting-advice.html
Top parenting resources from psychologists:
https://www.apa.org/monitor/2018/04/parenting-resources
Parenting materials are available to employees at the state library (KDLA). If you are interested in them, you can call the Library at 502-564-8300, ext. 342 or 800-928-7000, ext 342, or you can request items through the KDLA cataloguehere.
Materials can be picked up at the Library or items may be sent to your office by messenger mail, regular mail, or UPS. Below are just a few of the parenting resources available at KDLA:
The Challenging Child: Understanding, Raising, and Enjoying “Difficult” Types of Children by Stanley I. Greenspan (1995)
Co-Parenting Survival Guide by Elizabeth Thayer and Jeffery Zimmerman (2001)
How to Talk so Children Will Listen and How to Listen so Children Will Talk by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish (1980)
How to Talk so Teens Will Listen and How to Listen so Teens Will Talk by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish (2005)
Why Do You Have to Get Divorced and When Do I Get a Hamster? by Anthony E. Wolf (1998)
Stress Management
Everyone experiences stress and everyone needs their own stress management plan. Learn more about what you can do to better manage stress here.
Wellness
Your wellbeing matters. Employees of the Commonwealth of Kentucky can learn more about all of the components of the state's Wellness Program here.